I am blessed to enjoy this view each day in my office. It is a reminder of generational gifts. My father and my son are both artistically gifted. They never met. Growing up, we used my father’s Dove of Peace painting as our family Christmas card for years. It simply read, “PEACE from the Colans.”…
Category: Blog
Connect to Contributions to Fulfill the Need for Appreciation
Charles Plumb was a U.S. Naval Academy graduate, one of the original Top Gun pilots, and a pilot in Vietnam. On May 19, 1967, during his 75th combat mission (five days before the end of his tour), his plane was shot down. He ejected and parachuted into enemy hands, where he spent six years in…
Something to Say
I have something to say to you,If you lead with love, you will love to lead.When you make people feel seen and heard,They will engage and perform – guaranteed! Your perspective is your choice,So, look for the positive in all you see.Treat yourself like your own best friend,So you show up as the best you…
Rituals Connect Us
Back in your childhood, you may have belonged to a club that had a secret handshake. Just knowing that handshake made you feel like you were a part of the group, right? It was a “belonging” factor that made you feel connected. The handshake was something special that only members could do or know. In…
The Goodness of God
Tom Fox is the former physician and current gifted photographer whose inspiring images grace the pages of The Nature of Excellence. This majestic image is one of Tom’s "flower-scapes" in the Wind River Range (near the Rocky Mountains of Wyoming). The amazing proliferation of alpine sunflowers leads the eye to the beautiful, secluded lake below—while…
The Power of Connection
Healthy leaders create emotional bonds with their teams. We are wired to seek connections in our world. Humans are social creatures by design—and healthy leaders know and prioritize this truth. They excel not only at connecting directly with their team members, but also at helping team members connect with one another—in healthy ways. We often…
Connect to Meaning to Fulfill the Need for Purpose
Healthy leaders are bridge builders. One important bridge they build is between a team member’s work and a bigger purpose. There are two levels of purpose that leaders connect employees to: organizational purpose and team purpose. Organizational purpose relates to making the world a better place or improving the human condition through work. For instance,…
Timelines vs. Deadlines
The most common type of expectations leaders set are deadlines. This is only natural. We live in a world that trains us to meet deadlines, starting in grade school: your paper is due May 1; finish your community service hours by Aug. 1; taxes are due April 15; the budget is due Nov. 15; your…
Involve Your Team
As a leader, it’s powerful to involve your team to help define or refine the purpose. And you can bet, if your team is part of the process, they will be more engaged and committed. Work with them to answer these questions: Why do we exist as a team? Since people tend to respond with…
Reflections on Life
I have a family tradition of writing and reading letters to each family member for holidays, birthdays, and special occasions. The letter might contain encouragement, advice, a blessing, a reflection, or a story. I hit a milestone birthday a couple of years ago... yep, I turned 40 :). So, I wrote this letter to my…
