Seek and You Shall Find

Julie and I have a special family ritual with our children. On their twelfth birthday they can select any city in the continental United States to visit for a special celebration alone (i.e., sans siblings) with mom and dad.  I recall our trip with our middle child to New York City on her 12th birthday. Having been there…

You Must Let Go to Grow

The moment to change is one of the trickiest defining moments discussed in 7 Moments… that Define Excellent Leaders. Trees grow up through their branches, down through their roots and grow wider with each passing year. As growth occurs, trees eventually shed their protective bark to make way for growth. Humans are the same way. Just…

Choose Your View

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Life happens to all of us.  Sometimes it is filled with joyful, amazing experiences. Sometimes it can be trying with health, financial, work or relationship challenges.  Our future can be brighter if we intentionally look for the lessons and learnings from our trials and reframe our memories. You can work on creating inspiring memories out…

Your Boomerang to the World

The right attitude is the root to success. It enables us to stand strong and prevail. Your attitude reflects your past, describes your present, and predicts your future. The great news is that even in the worst situations – like being a victim of a natural disaster, a prisoner of war, a target of abuse…

A Matter of Perspective

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Sometimes a new perspective can hit you on the head a la "I could've had a V-8!" (a reference for those who are 40+).  For me, it happened a few years ago when I had the good fortune of working with an intern from my children's school. Her name is Jordan Denniston, and she was a high…

2 Habits of Mentally Tough Leaders

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Winning leadership is a game that is typically won between the ears. It's mental toughness that enables a team victory. Here are two habits mentally tough leaders practice. First, mentally strong leaders check their focus. The things we focus on create a magnet for our lives. Focus on opportunities, and doors seem to open. Focus…

3 Steps to Move through Adversity

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Adversity is not reserved for day-time soap operas. Even the most fortunate of us has experienced adversity of some type: loss of job, health problems, failed relationships, disappointments at work, financial difficulties, death of loved ones, etc. We intentionally used the word move since adversity has an uncanny knack of paralyzing us. If we do…

Have a Need? Help Someone Succeed.

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Life rewards action. But even greater rewards await those who orchestrate positive actions. Loving relationships, meaningful work, financial security, time to recreate and a lasting legacy come to those who act to bring them about. Although life isn't always easy and there are plenty of excuses not to be our best, rewards go to those…

Winners Always Quit

Video of fM67NFGCeT8 I love a good quotation as much as anyone. I remember a classic from way back when I was a kid.  I’m still a kid at heart, but certainly not in years.  “Winners never quit and quitters never win.” We’ve all heard that one and may have even tried to live by…